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Lars and the Real Girl

Rated - 3 stars

It's not unusual for children to have imaginary friends. Parents usually take an indulgent - if uneasy - view of such a fantasy, confident that it will soon pass.

The Orphanage and The Spiderwick Chronicles both play on just such an understanding, but in each case the imaginary has more teeth than you would expect.

When it's an adult labouring under this delusion it's more disturbing - unless you're Jimmy Stewart and your pal is a six foot white rabbit answering to the name of "Harvey".

Lars (Ryan Gosling) may be another exception. He lives alone in a converted garage, right next door to his brother Gus (Paul Schneider) and his wife Karin (Emily Mortimer). Terminally shy, especially where the opposite sex is concerned, Lars practically suffers a nervous breakdown when his sister in law invites him in for dinner. As for Margo (Kelli Garner) at work, she might as well have the bubonic plague as far as he's concerned.

Still, Lars isn't unsympathetic. He's basically a decent guy - he's even a churchgoer - so long as you don't try to get too close.

That's why everyone in the small Midwestern town he calls home is so happy when Lars reports that he's found a girlfriend.

Bianca may not be the gal his mom would have picked for him - she doesn't speak English and she's paralysed - but she's a real doll. In fact she's plastic. Because Lars is so deeply smitten, Dr Dagmar (Patricia Clarkson) encourages friends and family to play along. Amazingly, the whole town gets in on the act and Bianca soon becomes a prominent figure in the community. Meanwhile Lars slowly but surely emerges from his shell.

Because Bianca is a sex doll the movie's premise has a built in "yuck" factor. That distaste evaporates as you realise that sex isn't on the agenda (she sleeps in Gus and Karin's spare room), and many viewers have embraced this odd little picture as a touching and original sentimental comedy.

I have to say I'm not one of them. The movie would be more honest if Lars did have sex with Bianca, but that's not really the issue. Anyone who has grown up in or moved to a small community will know that outsiders tend to be viewed warily. I simply couldn't believe the way the townsfolk accepted Bianca and welcomed her as one of their own - maybe I'm a cynic, but I have a suspicion that in real world, Lars would be laughed off the streets in about two seconds. Or worse.

If people really were this generous, sympathetic and understanding, well, maybe Lars wouldn't be in such a sorry state to begin with, poor soul.

Emily Mortimer and Paul Schneider give beautifully judged performances: Mortimer plays an open hearted and compassionate person with such simplicity and - sometimes - consternation; she almost makes the movie work single-handedly. Schneider has an easier task, Gus reacts in ways most of us would recognise (embarrassment, confusion, incredulity, guilt), and consequently reaps most of the laughs.

As for Gosling - he's a terrific actor, and this is a meticulously constructed performance, from the character's square, corduroy-and-knits clothes and too-thick moustache to his vague, nervous smile and wan expression. But Lars may be an impossible character. At any rate, Gosling didn't convince me otherwise.

Written by Nancy Oliver (who has half a dozen episodes of Six Feet Under to her credit) and directed by Craig Gillespie (who was canned from Mr Woodcock), Lars And The Real Girl is so tasteful and saccharine it makes Harvey look like a David Lynch movie.

Tom Charity
tom.charity@lovefilm.com

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	  stars out of 5 Trevor Johnston, Time Out

Small-town America, and shy office worker Lars (Ryan Gosling) spends his evenings alone, a gentle but seemingly... read more on www.timeout.com

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Rated - 5 starsWhat can i say....amazing!

jdub from London [Highly rated reviewer] , 21/03/2008

Watched this bored on a plane yesterday purely by chance after thinking 'this will either be horrendous or brilliant, so i'll give it 5 mins and see what happens...I gave it 5 and it held my attention, but I was still unsure...so gave it another 10...and was utterly hooked! Brimming with originality and great humour (I was laughing out loud in a plane seat!!) but also provoking emotions of sadness, pity, reflection, love and humanity. Quiet aside from the excellent storyline, you have in this film some of the best acting I have seen in ages..Ryan Gosling is jaw-droppingly excellent, and he's not the only shining star.

Watch it, watch it, watch it...

  70 out of 70 people found this review helpful

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Rated - 5 starsCharity?

A customer from London , 12/03/2008

Tom Charity's review is misleading and misled. What is spectacular about this film is not only its originality but also the way it challenges our preconceptions (those same preconceptions Mr Charity clearly holds dear). Writer, director and cast make inspired creative choices and play them to the hilt so that an idea which you would expect to run out of steam continues to surprise, provoke and challenge throughout ... but most importantly, it has an amazing sense of humour. Its funny, Tom, very, very funny.

  19 out of 20 people found this review helpful

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Rated - 0 starsLars and the real girl

A customer from Huddersfield , 27/10/2008

This film was appauling!! I wasted nearly 2 hours of my life watching it!!! It was so poor, I cant even think of a film that comes any where near as poor as this one!!

  17 out of 21 people found this review helpful

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Rated - 5 starsStunning

VJM from Surrey [Highly rated reviewer] , 26/04/2008

This was possibly the sweetest flim I have ever seen without being mushy. Fabulous performances from all without exception.

  14 out of 15 people found this review helpful

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Rated - 2 starsLars and the wonderful fairytale

A customer from Redditch, England , 14/12/2008

I was quite disappointed with this film, more so in the direction it took. I was expecting quite an emotional film about mental illness and how sufferers and family members deal with the struggles surrounding it. I suspect people reading this will think I have missed the point somewhat or that the film covered those issues sufficiently but for me it seemed to gloss over any real substance in the story i.e. how did Lars end up in his situation?, what really led to Lars’s suffering? It became the sort of 'heart-warming' cliché film that I like to avoid - how a small town can come together and overcome any problem (insert mental illness context here). It was way too “fairytale” and even the musical score reinforced this feeling almost entirely throughout the film.

As others have pointed out, I’m not very sure that all the people in a town like that would continuously humour him to the effort they did as it is very rare for so many people to be completely understanding of mental illness without any sort of preconceived notions. Also I couldn’t help but find it strange how Lars was treated i.e. everyone including the doctor encouraging him and his believe that Bianca was real or understating his condition as 'not really a mental illness' when considering he was directly responding to questions aloud that were asked by himself inside his head and projected from Bianca.

I guess I was expecting or would have liked the film to be darker and grounded in a more realistic reality (not necessarily to the point of intentionally being a dark depressing story). I liked the idea of basing it around a relationship with an inanimate object but it was done in a cheap, safe and simple way (not in terms of throwing awkward quirky jokes which thankfully were kept to a minimum).

I think it sais a lot that the director makes a brief note in the special features deleted scene at how that particular scene was darker in tone and that he missed it but ultimately decided he wanted the film to be a 'more straightforward emotional journey'. This came across like a get out clause for any complexity whilst at the same time wanting to be taken seriously in its subject matter and have wide mass appeal.

For me it was a nice idea but a missed opportunity for something that has the potential to be great.

Jeez I feel like Roger Ebert :- (

  2 out of 2 people found this review helpful

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Rated - 2 starsLeft me feeling empty

LuckyRathen from Aberdeen [Highly rated reviewer] , 13/04/2009

I read a lot of hype about this film so I was very excited about seeing it, but really for a movie about human emotion, it completely lacked any emotion. I found Ryan Gosling's character to be completely unlikeable, a fatal flaw for a leading man in any movie. In fact I felt no connection with or sympathy for any of the characters whatsoever.

The movie tells us that Bianca, the sex doll which Lars introduces as his new girlfriend, had such an effect on the townspeople that it spurs the whole town to turn up for her 'funeral', not only to show their love for Lars but also because of their love and grief for Bianca - however apart from a few fleeting shots of Bianca sitting in a classroom full of children and in a beauty salon, we don't really see how the townspeople interact with Bianca when Lars isn't there and they can drop their act. We are just expected to believe that they took her into their hearts, but really in a situation this absurd it's difficult to accept this.

This movie tries very hard to be a heart-warming tale about a community rallying round one of their own who is suffering from a mental illness, but really it just falls flat on just about every level. The extra star is for the ever dependable Patricia Clarkson, who is on fine form as usual as Lars' doctor and just about saves this.

  3 out of 3 people found this review helpful

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